General topics on sexuality
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Masturbation for Men
For a male, masturbation is a very normal
part of his sex life even if he is in a committed relationship. As a
teenager, masturbation is a way of giving self gratification and exploring
of his sexual pleasures.
There are many terms used for a man
masturbating. Some of the most common in the USA is jerking off, jacking
off, beating the meat, and getting off. There are many more slang terms
but those listed are some of the most common.
Men get great pleasure from touching
their own penis and testicles and experiencing different types of
stimulation. Most men also enjoy being watched by their partner.
One thing that most studies have shown is
that masturbation is a way that men find out what they enjoy sexually. It
is not uncommon for teenage males to masturbate together in a way of self
discovery. They lean by watching what brings pleasure to the person by
way of the penis. By doing so, they are better able to show how to guide
their partner what pleases them sexually. Male to male contact at this
early age is very common and does not lead to a person being gay. In fact,
there are a higher number of gays who never had any male to male contact
while they were young.
As an adult, masturbation is a form of
sexual release. By this time, men know what excites them so they can
enjoy the very satisfying sexual sensations. Men also utilize fantasy to
see what is erotic for them and added stimulation. In fact, fantasizing
for both men an women is an important part of human sexuality.
Many males like to go slowly when they
masturbate so they can experience each level of excitement in their body.
They know what techniques to use to control the point at which they
ejaculate. Some males masturbate fast, then ejaculate fast.
Sometimes this meets the needs of that person for that particular day but
overall, they miss the pleasure of each stage.
If you have always masturbated fast, try
slowing it down so you can feel how your excitement and body changes as
your urge grows. You will find that the orgasm will be stronger when you
get to the point of no return.
Also, when you go more slowly, the more
sexual tension and semen will build up in your body, and your ejaculation
and orgasm will be stronger and more satisfying when you do let go. Older
males (40+) have reported that taking thirty minutes or more gives them
much more satisfaction over all, than a quick jerking off. That does not
mean at times they will do that, but for the most satisfaction they will
masturbate slowly. Masturbation is the ideal means of getting to know
your body sexually and exploring your sexuality by use of fantasy. By
utilizing fantasy while masturbating, you imagine yourself in different
scenarios such as swinging sex, multiple partners or even your special
partner trying different things on you. Only you know what you fantasize
about.
Masturbation is an important aspect of
treatment for sexual difficulties and even couples masturbate. One of the
primary reason for men having sexual difficulties is that that probably
never got to know their body or only learned to jack off fast which could
have led to problems with premature ejaculation.
On the other hand, as a
man gets older, the majority of them face erectile
dysfunction (ED). Masturbation is the
best way to delay the onset of ED or to slow the process down. For a man
the old saying "if you don't use it, you lose it" is apparently true.
What masturbation does is to help keep everything in working older as long
as possible without using drug treatment. In both cases, it's important
to masturbate slowly to get to know your body and sexual reactions.
Masturbation styles with men change with age. One study showed when men
masturbated more slowly, not only did they enjoy sex more, their
relationships were more stable than men who only sought quick sexual
gratification.
THE INTERNET AND
MASTURBATION
Men of all ages masturbate much more
since the internet has become part of most homes. A man can view a
picture of something that stimulates him or even adult movies. Many adult
websites offer various types of visual aids or even view pictures that
others have posted that are very sensual. Some adults will even post a
profile to seek others for adult sexual fun and will fantasy about the
encounter prior to the meeting. One thing about the internet you
certainly can find what you want.
CYBER SEX
There are many "chat" rooms for adults
that are very provocative where sexual chat is done. Masturbation usually
occurs quite frequently during cyber chats. The chats are enhanced even
more with the sending of pictures. Since the mid 1990’s, the use of the
internet has increased dramatically for hard core chat rooms where adults
can even look to meet sexual partners.
Now with web cams, the sexual chat has
been taken to a new level where total strangers can watch another man or
woman, what ever the case may be, to jerk off or masturbate by hand or by
use of a sexual toy. If you want to expand on your sexual excitement by
masturbation try one of these web sites.
SEX TOYS FOR
MEN. There are many sex toys for men. There are sexual toys
that look and feel like a real pussy or suction cups that feel as if
someone is giving oral sex. They all can give him a very pleasurable
ejaculation. Many couples use these toys for adult couples fun. This web
site has adult toys for adult fun. If you never tried one, give it shot.
The more you explore your sexuality by masturbating, the better in tune
you get with your body.
So you ask, What is
Masturbation?
Masturbation is defined as "to fondle
one's own genitals, or those of someone else, to cause sexual pleasure".
So petting is a form of mutual masturbation. Another way to look at it
is masturbation is sexual stimulation by touching your genitals or other
parts of your body. Masturbation may not always lead to an orgasm, but for
most men and women that is the goal.
Masturbation use to be involved using
your own hands. But today both men and women has a lot of very good sexual
to do use and dildo that feel and look like the real thing. Thirty years
ago most people masturbated by themselves. But today many couples
masturbate together. This give the couple both sexual gratification and
togetherness.
But for men it is still something men do
on their own more often than not even if they are married or are in a
sexual relationship. Let's face it men enjoy the sexual satisfaction that
masturbation gives them.
Masturbation is completely healthy and
harmless. It will not hurt your body in any way. In fact, masturbation is
good for your heart and relief of stress, plus it is one of the safest
forms of sex and you don’t have to have a partner to enjoy it.
Time has changed a lot since the
Victorian days when religion and other cultures looked at masturbation as
something to be forbidden. In the US, there are still some people who hold
this belief, but is not supported by the facts. Masturbation is a
normal sexual behavior in humans.
What percentage of adults masturbate?
Back in 1950, the Kinsey report was released. Even back then, it was
95% of males and 85% of females who masturbated. Males have now
increased to 98% and women to 96%. The number has increased sharply not
only the percentages, but how often and who they masturbate with. Plus
there is a substantial percentage of mutual masturbation (watching) with
couples. This also does not include gay and lesbian couples.
How often do people
masturbate?
This is like asking how often people have
sex. It varies greatly between men and women. As you can see from the
figures above, a few people do not masturbate at all. There are some
people who masturbate on a monthly basis and others do it every several
times a day as their norm. All are OK - and normal. People in their
teens and into their early thirties, it is common to masturbate several
times in a day. This is still within the norm while others only
masturbate a couple times a week.
How often does people masturbate?
This is like asking how often people
have sex. It varies greatly with men on how often they masturbate. As you can see
from the figures above, a few people do not masturbate at all. There are
some people masturbate on a monthly basis and others do it every several
times a day as their norm. All are OK - and normal. People in their
teens and into their early thirties it is common from them to masturbate several
times in a day. This is still within the norm. Other only Masturbate
a couple times a week and this is within the norm also.
Masturbation for Women
Although women in the past tend to
masturbate less than men, it seems that women should be encouraged to enjoy their bodies more.
It is an ideal way of getting to know your body, enjoying sexual
sensations and finding out what kind of stimulation you really enjoy. The
women who enjoy masturbating believe they are good at sex and enjoy having
it often. However, for many who have poor sexual satisfaction, those
women have not explored themselves and rely upon their partner for their
sexual needs. The more that women had explored themselves as teens, the
more satisfaction they enjoyed as adults from every form of sex.
Most women's needs for sexual
stimulation are some what more complex than males. Let's face it, men's
sexual tool is easily accessible, stick outs and easy to use. For a
woman, it is just not one part of the body that creates stimulation, but a
multitude of other parts that work together for that strong orgasm. Some
things work for one and other things work for another. The woman's sexual
anatomy is that unique! Masturbation allows the opportunity to explore all
these sensitive parts. By knowing what turns you on, you don't have to
rely on your partner but you can share with your partner. Your partner
will be very pleased by how your body reacts. You can safely find out
how it feels to be touched in certain ways. For your exploration you may
use your fingers or a sex toy such as a dildo or a vibrator. Well over
96% who have tried a powerful vibrator had orgasms “about all the time”.
It's also helpful to use some lubricant or oil to minimize friction and to
maximize erotic sensations if your body is not producing enough. However,
the more you experience sex, most women in all age groups, found that
their bodies were more sensitive to sexual stimulus.
As you masturbate, feel what your body is
telling you. Enjoy it. Just don’t rush to the finish line each and every
time. Enjoy your wildest sexual fantasies either alone or share them with
your partner. Use images to explore what turns you on. Once you know what
you enjoy sexually it will be easy to share that information with a
partner.
Female ejaculation and the G-spot. Yes,
they are for real! The G spot is about 2 ½ to 3” inside the woman's
vagina. If the woman is on her back, it is on the roof of the vagina.
Pressing this spot or fingering this spot will give a woman a fast and
powerful orgasm which in many women result in what is called a female
ejaculation. There is a watery substance that gushes.
Masturbation for gay and lesbian
couples
If you're in a homosexual relationship,
masturbation is almost always a big part of this type of relationship It
is a very important in your sexual repertoire. You don’t
have any advantage over heterosexual couples, but gays seen to be less
inhibited by the sexual norms or what once was the sexual norms. Within
your relationship, allow yourself to really explore masturbation and all
it has to offer to both of you, whether you are masturbating together or
separately. When one partner wants sex and the other is not in the mood
this watching your partner can be an important part of your sex life.
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